Persevering on the Road to Weight Loss
Sunday, January 17th, 2010Brandy Golden, ACSM Health Fitness, Specialist
CoachmeFit, East Grand Rapids
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal; it is the courage to continue that counts.”
Do you remember when you first began your weight loss journey? You were so excited - full of motivation and great expectations. You had a plan and you were sticking to it! Perhaps you have remained faithful to your plan and as a result your body has changed. Your muscles are stronger, your waistline slimmer, and your endurance greater. You should be proud of your success. Or maybe you have come short of the expectations you set for yourself when you began this journey. You miss an exercise session on occasion and stray from your intended diet frequently. Regardless of which person you are, the road to weight loss can be bumpy. There will come a day when you will need more than enthusiasm to reach your goals, you will need to persevere. Here are some tips to help you endure the road to weight loss.
1. Go down memory lane
Reminding yourself regularly of reasons you started this journey is key to staying on track. There will be days when you just want to go home, hit the couch and grab the Oreos. However, when you look back at your goals which state that you want to feel more comfortable in your own skin; be more active with your kids, or attract some extra attention from that special someone, then you will be more likely to exchange the Oreos for a nice glass of milk.
2. Find an accountability partner.
Accountability is the obligation or willingness to accept responsibility for your actions. This is the tool that will help you resist the habits that hinder weight loss. Personal trainers are great accountability partners. With a trainer you are forced to keep your appointment and if you miss your session, you lose your money. Friends are great motivators as well. The fear of disappointing a friend could be what drives you to attend the 7p.m. cycling class after a long day of work. Your most important source of accountability, however, is yourself. To keep yourself on track, try keeping a daily journal and setting weekly goals. Simple goals such as “I will eat breakfast every day this week,” may seem small, but these are the stepping stones that will ultimately lead to the “big” goals. Remember accountability is the obligation, not just the willingness to take responsibility for your actions. Whether you consciously use these accountability aids or not, there will always be a consequence for every action. You would rather put forth the effort and see your short comings in your daily journal than see them in next year’s family vacation photos.
3. Strengthen your will to resist.
The goals that you set years ago, months ago, or even today will not be achieved without much effort and sacrifice. Regardless of any circumstance, if your goal is to stop eating at 7p.m., then you must stop eating at this time. Each time you resist the urge to eat at 7 p.m., you feed the healthy habit and strengthen your will to resist. When you do not meet your daily goals, you are feeding the poor habits and ultimately strengthening your will to give in. Resisting temptation is not easy, but the only way to strengthen your will power is by exercising it. Any time you are tempted to give in remind yourself of the consequences. For example, “The cake would taste so good right now, but I will be disappointed in myself later if I eat it; not to mention, the enjoyment of eating the cake will last less than five minutes; but the weight I will gain as a result of it could last a while.”
4. Recognize your progress
Acknowledging your achievements is just as important as acknowledging your shortcomings. When you see the healthy changes you are making, it only encourages you to continue. However, when you focus solely on your shortcomings, you will become discouraged. You may think thoughts such as “I will never lose the weight,” or “I’m a failure, “but discouragement can also manifest itself with the “all or none” mentality. For instance, you eat one chip, so you think, “I’ve already messed up, so I’ll eat twenty more.” Obviously it would be great for you to avoid the chips, but usually it is the bowl of chips, not the one that causes excessive weight gain. If you eat something that was not planned, your weight loss journey is not over. Keep moving forward and applaud yourself for doing so.
Achieving long term weight loss can be difficult. The tools listed above such as accountability and will-power will help you greatly on your journey. However, there will still be times when you miss a workout or splurge on buttered popcorn at the movies. Do not give up. The road to weight loss is often completed by taking one step forward and two steps back. No matter where you are on the journey, keep moving forward. Sooner or later everyone needs to look past motivation and depend on perseverance. If you have exceeded your expectations thus far, remember success is not final. Perhaps you have come short of what you had hoped; thankfully, failure is not fatal. It is the courage to continue that counts. Keep heart. You can do this!


